Monday, April 21, 2014

so the problem with GENDERBEND and GENDERSWAP



content warning: discussion of cissexism/cissexist slurs

SHORT ANSWER: they’re dehumanizing.


genderbender is a term that’s been around for quite a while, and it has a history of being used to fetishize trans* bodies. it assigns the idea of body parts = presentation = gender—i.e. your ‘parts’ and your ‘presentation’ and gender must all match up. which is. ridiculous. since gender and body parts and presentation can all be TOTALLY DIFFERENT. shit does not have to match up!

genderbender has been in use in popular culture! futurama! ranma 1/2 is friggin BUILT off this trope! it was the title of an x-files episode about an alien species that could ~change their body~ (their BODY, so it’s not about gender at all! remember, gender is a societal thing built on roles for men and women, it has fuck all to do with bodies). oh and then the titular alien murdered people. yep. that’s great. it’s not like there’s a history of transgender folk being framed as oversexed rapists/murderers. nope.

(silence of the lambs, for example, is one of the more famous out there, not even getting into all the “transploitation” porn/rape revenge shit out there)

and no, you are not meaning to reference a long history of trans* people being fetishized as she-males and trannies and benders—you just want to draw cute fanart of your fave dude as a lady or your fave lady as a dude! but uh, you are still totally doing that, regardless of intention.

because you are playing into the cissexist notion that body parts = gender = presentation. and that a dude being turned into a lady means he now had breasts and a vagina and wears a dress and goes by she. nvm that hey, he could totally become a she and still wear the exact same damn clothes and have a penis. REVOLUTIONARY. I KNOW.

is there anything wrong with wanting to make a character a different gender? nah, go hogwild! fanfiction and fanart is for exploring stuff, and hey, that includes gender + gender roles. but the problem IS in 99% of ~genderbending~ or ~genderswapping,~ gender, presentation, and body parts are ALWAYS ALWAYS in a set. ie

  • GIRLS: have vaginas, boobs, wear dresses, and id as female
  • BOYS: have penises, wear pants, and id as men

you will very very rarely find

  • GIRLS: have a penis AND a moustache, wear dresses, id as female.
  • GIRLS: have a penis, wear pants, and id as female
  • GIRLS: have a vagina, wear pants, id as female
  • BOYS: have a vagina, wear pants, id as men
  • BOYS: have a vagina, wear dresses, id as men
  • BOYS: have a penis, wear dresses, id as men
  • NONBINARY PEOPLE: ??????????????????? WHAT PEOPLE EXIST OUTSIDE MALE/FEMALE???????????????

genderbending/genderswapping contributes to even more erasure of trans* folk, nonbinary peeps, and also intersex bodies, not to mention! continued fetishization of gender/presentation/bodies that can ~change~ or do not fit in with ~norms~.

and no, rule 63 is not really a better term for this, since it means the exact same thing, but at least it doesn’t give me ragegasms when i see the word (unlike genderbender. yall, that is kinda a slur? let’s not).

so next time you are drawing/writing/exploring this, maybe. keep this in mind and switch it up a bit?

and STOP USING THESE WORDS, like god damn IF YOU WANT TO DRAW. IDK. mulder as a lady and scully as a dude, HOW ABOUT MAYBE JUST PRESENTING IT AS “mulder as a lady” or “scully as a dude” or “dude!scully” OR SOMETHING ELSE that is not inherently gross.




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Saturday, April 19, 2014



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Wednesday, April 16, 2014


People criticizing TFIOS because Gus sounds pretentious???

that was the point???

like literally at his fake funeral his best friend talks about how fucking pretentious he is and how annoying it was???

It was one of his character flaws? He was deliberately written that way?

You’re not being clever or critical by pointing it out, you are literally stating a fact about the novel that the author deliberately wrote

Bullshit. It was never written as a flaw. Isaac is the only person who even bothered pointing it out and it was a sentence set in a dramatic moment with the purpose of making the reader sad about the loss of this “beautiful poetic soul”.

It was written as an “endearing quirk” and had this been Hazel’s characteristic, everyone would have been screaming MANIC PIXIE DREAM GIRL before I could stub a cigarette on the page out of spite.

Just because a character trait/quirk is acknowledged within the text, it doesn’t automatically exempt them from criticism. “He was deliberately written that way” - By that logic, we can’t criticize any book or any character in existence, since they were “deliberately written that way”. I don’t see people lining up to defend Bella Swan’s clumsiness. That’s because we all know it’s meant to be a “flaw” that’s not a flaw.

I criticize tfios because John Green doesn’t do dialogue well. It’s awkward and stilted when it comes out your mouth. His style is better suited to internal monologues, non-fiction, and poetry. He’s not a bad writer. He’s just writing for the wrong genre.

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I enjoy controlled loneliness. I like wandering around the city alone. I’m not afraid of coming back to an empty flat and lying down in an empty bed. I’m afraid of having no one to miss, of having no one to love. Kuba Wojewodzki, Polish journalist and comedian.  (via thatkindofwoman)

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Monday, April 14, 2014


For anyone who wants a simple proof that Palestine existed before 1948, here’s a coin from 1927 worth 10 Mils (this currency is no longer used). Also note that the word “Palestine” is written in both Arabic and Hebrew indicating not only a Jewish presence, but a prominent one. Jews and Arabs DID live side by side in peace. The Zionist idea that they cannot coexist is an absolute fallacy.

Friendly reminder that in Dorne, the eldest child is named heir regardless of gender. And that bastards aren’t outcasts.

Also, Oberyn Martell never abandoned his bastard daughters; he raised them all, took responsibility of them, taught them how to fight and defend themselves, and allowed them full independence.

And the Sand Snakes are totally gon’ fuck shit up and be fab. House Martell, y’all. UNBOWED, UNBENT, UNBROKEN~

Sunday, April 13, 2014